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By Hedy Schleifer, MA, LMHC
1. 100 Little Gestures of Love and Caring
2. Let go of all your 'stuff' once a week. Take bath together
and let 'stuff' drain out with water.
3. Carry a picture in your wallet of your partner as a little
child.
4. Remember 90-10 formula in any conflict: 10% is about the present;
90% is about the past
5. "Incompatibility" is a boost to your relationship!
6. We usually are thinking from the point of view: "The two
of us are one and I'm the one!"
7. We need to create a safe harbor for passion.
8. The mission of committed relationship is to finish childhood
and become adults.
9. When things are very difficult, growth is trying to happen.
10. Keep the fire going through romance: All day is foreplay.
11. Make the Divine Presence a partner in your relationship.
12. With increasing consciousness and intentionality it gets better
all the time.
Copyright 1996-2008, Hedy Schleifer, MA,
LMHC. Miami Beach, Florida Copies of this article or parts thereof
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